Don’t Break Yourself Just To Build Up Someone Else

There comes a time in your life when you tried all that you could, yet, you come to realize that you have to put YOU first. That’s one idea.

Don’t break yourself, taking pieces from yourself just to use those same “pieces” to fix someone else. Don’t, I tell you.

Cause, some people don’t want to be fix and that’s okay. No matter what it is, or how much  you want to:

You can NOT help someone before you can help yourself, or unless the two of you can help build each other up together. That’s another idea.

Take care of  yourself:

  • Mentally
  • Physically
  • Spiritually
  • Emotionally
  • And also, financially. First.

Enjoy the rest of your day!


First off, happy Thrusday to you all! I know that I tend to get on a serious note, but this is serious- or however you may want to look at it.

I had came across this article on Facebook and wasn’t going to read it, thinking it may be garbage or something blah blah. It was deemed interesting; I must say. So, ladies tell me what do you think about these five reasons you think those women( the word hoes sounds harsh) are winning in your opinion.

Also, women who are available, fun, or stroke men egos aren’t always a hoe, mind you.

Men, you are welcome to chime in as well. What are your thoughts?

Chat with you soon. 💋


Hello Everyone- Blogging 101


I just want to stop in to say hello to everyone. And with today assignment for Blogging 101 to say hello to other bloggers, I want to write a post saying so. I’m sure it’s okay.

Well, with that being said, I hope everyone is doing well in their lives and with their blogs. It’s hard to keep both afloat and at one time I couldn’t. My blog ended up catching hell for a long time. It has been up and running consistently a little over a year now after being down for so long. Can’t believe my blog is going on four years old!

Anyway, going off subject, I encourage you all to not give up on your dreams, no matter what. Every talent is needed in this world. Some people sit on their talents, their dreams, but you don’t have to. Keep pushing yourself everyday to be better than you was yesterday.

Enjoy your day! 💋

P.S. I do everything from my phone, and I have noticed that the people I know I’ve followed, WordPress telling me that I’m not. So if I had followed you in the past and following you again, I had never unfollowed you intentionally. I hope to get this fix. My apologies.