Don’t Be Afraid To Make A Change To Be A Better You

I told myself over a year ago that in order for me to move forward in life, I must make a change. To come out of whatever shell I’m in and away from the naysayers who felt like I would be doing something wrong if I make a change that I haven’t tried before. Or to just do something with my life other than allowing those who don’t care about me no way or another to dictate to me believing that I should remain where I am.
Because, being in a situation that no longer serving you, especially when you’ve done all that you could do and you’re not where you want to be, literally and figuratively, shouldn’t have to remain the same. I never could get the saying, “the more things change, the more they stay the same.” I feel like if one way isn’t working, you should try something else. You have that right to do so.
That what life is all about- reinventing yourself, to be a better version of yourself.
We have one life and we have to live it on our own terms, not anyone else’s.

A song that had inspired me over the years but it took going through a lot to know that enough is enough, is a song by Kelly Clarkson called, Breakaway.

The lyrics can explain it better than I can.

Here’s part of the lyrics:

“I’ll spread my wings, and I’ll learn how to fly
I’ll do what it takes till I touch the sky
And I’ll make a wish
Take a chance
Make a change
And breakaway
Out of the darkness and into the sun
But I won’t forget all the ones that I love
I’ll take a risk
Take a chance
Make a change
And breakaway”

Written by: Avril Ramona Lavigne, Bridget Louise Benenate, Matthew Gerrard • Copyright © Warner/Chappell Music, Inc, Universal Music Publishing Group, BMG Rights Management US, LLC


In Life, Be Like A Tree #MondayMotivation 

Be you. Be your wonderful, beautiful self. Be enlightened, empowered and strong.

Stay positive. Vibrate higher. And most of all, love who you are.

I sincerely hope everyone have a bless day. 🙏


Don’t Break Yourself Just To Build Up Someone Else

There comes a time in your life when you tried all that you could, yet, you come to realize that you have to put YOU first. That’s one idea.

Don’t break yourself, taking pieces from yourself just to use those same “pieces” to fix someone else. Don’t, I tell you.

Cause, some people don’t want to be fix and that’s okay. No matter what it is, or how much  you want to:

You can NOT help someone before you can help yourself, or unless the two of you can help build each other up together. That’s another idea.

Take care of  yourself:

  • Mentally
  • Physically
  • Spiritually
  • Emotionally
  • And also, financially. First.

Enjoy the rest of your day!


Stay Strong…Never Give Up #SundayMotivation

A cup of inspiration for the soul.

For those who may be going through hardships and feel that they are alone, remember that there is someone else out there who are going through harder times than you.

Don’t ever doubt yourself. Believe in yourself. Know that if you just push your way through, better days are awaiting.
Never allow yourself to accept the minimal when you can achieve the maximum you can strive. Yes, you may have to start at the bottom if you’re just starting out for the first time or starting over, but you don’t have stay down there.
Reach higher. Go farther. Don’t give up. What you seek is only just around the corner.

Hope you all a wonderful and blessed Sunday. Love and light! 💞.                           — Pamela