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PressThis: The 5 Major Things You Must Realize Before You Can Transform Into Better Versions Of Yourself


Good morning/afternoon/evening everyone! I hope you all are well. And for those that celebrates Memorial Day, Happy Memorial Day to you! A special one of thanks and gratitude to the military family and friends I know. Thank you for your service.

Today’s post is about transformation from an article I read and since it hit close to what I was planning on blogging about, I decided to share it.

What does transformation means to you, and have you ever went through one? How have it affected you?

Transformation is so important in our lives, for our well-being, and most of all for us spiritually. When there is an area or two (or more) in our life that we need to work on, we don’t sit back and hope it will one day work out on its own. No, we work on those area(s) ourselves so we can heal and grow spiritually. And in most cases, mentally, emotionally, sexually, etc.

This article hadn’t touched all the bases I want to talk about; however, I will one day come back to elaborate more. Though, below are the five things we must realize if we want to transform into a better us I had added to give you some insight on what the article entailed. And what I took from each one. You can read the entire article by clicking the link below. I do hope it helps someone.

Take care of yourself from the inside out.

–Pamela


“Change is inevitable, but transformation is by conscious choice.” — Heather Ash Amara

When you hear people talking about becoming better versions of themselves you probably imagine a Disney transformation. In real life transformation happens differently. If you want to know how differently ask the butterfly that transforms from a caterpillar. The truth is, transformation is not a smooth path. It means facing everything within you that you run away from, staying within that inner goo until you are done.

And by done, I mean until you are ready to break out of your cocoon and face the real world.

Here are the five things you must realize if you want to transform into better and truer version of yourself:

1. You must let go of the pain from your past. (Before you can transform into a better version, you must let go of this pain because it will keep holding you down, even in the most perfect reality you can imagine.)

2. There is no alternative. (We want to change but we don’t want to leave our comfort zone. Well sorry, it can’t be done like that. The sooner you embrace this fact and take action, the better.)

3. Stop trying to be yourself. (Stop trying, and BE!)

4. Transformation is now. (Real freedom is now, it’s in your choices this moment. Knowing what to do will not serve you anything if you don’t do something right now. If you want to change your life, you don’t plan, you do it in this right exact moment. You stop reading and you call the person you want to call to tell them what you wanted.)

5. Learn to surf. (The most powerful way is to learn how to use the force of the stream in your favor, not as something you fight. This means you go with the current but you surf it to your favor.)

Source: The 5 Major Things You Must Realize Before You Can Transform Into Better Versions Of Yourself

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Life Is a Mirror Reflecting Back to You #SelfReflections


No matter what it was that had happened in your life, it happened for a reason. Everything does. Life is our greatest teacher, and what we go through are lessons that help us learn and to grow. And, to be a better version of ourselves.

I hope you all have been well, and remember that every day you open your eyes is a blessing. You matter. And each and every one of you are going to be okay.

Take care and live your best life! 🌹

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Happy Birthday To Me!!! 🎂🎁🎉


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Oh gosh! I can’t believe how fast a year had went by. I am still in my thirties, but I’m not telling my age. (Wink, wink.) These last twelve months had truly been a life learned lesson. We really can’t take life for granted. We got to get out there and pursue dreams. To live life on our own terms.
The one thing about getting older to me is that it causes you to look back at how far you have come in life. I am a totally different person now than who I once was. And I still got some ways to go to get to where I want to be.

Though, I do wish at times I can go back in life with the knowledge I have now. (Don’t we all?) And change some things I’ll like to fix. The real reason is you can’t go backwards, only forward. Life isn’t designed that way. Every single thing that had happened was meant for me to go through. To learn. To heal. To help others. And, 

I. Am. So. Grateful. For. It. All.

As for what I going to do for my birthday, I seriously have no idea. I probably will celebrate it some other time. Not sure. But what I can say what I would like to do is to go on a trip somewhere. To let my hair down and feel the wind massaging my scalp and caressing my skin. I want to truly be me. I’m an Aries, lovelies! 💋

Anyway, I want to donate more to those who need help. We should never forget about the less fortunate on the non-holidays. I have a whole list to share that I’ll reserve for another day.

Until then, I hope all is well in your lives, and be joyous and blessed.

Xoxo.

– Pamela 😘