Loyalty and Faithfulness


Let’s talk about loyalty in a relationship/marriage. When is it okay to defile what is so wonderful that you stood before all and exchange vows?
Let’s start with a relationship since that comes before marriage , of course.
When two people decide to enter  a relationship, you are supposedly to be for and do the best you can for the other. I have been in and seen folks who claim to be in a relationship to defile what was to be a wonderful thing. Do you believe that, for instance, a man to lust after another woman while being for another just because he’s a man? And, for a woman to show off the goods in attempt to showcase herself?
For one, I have witness men having a woman at home but chase what’s out there in the streets. They will say, “I want a good woman who is this, this, and this.” And he will actually gets that- maybe not exactly; but no one gets everything they want. Those same men goes sniffing up another skirt and hopes of a good lay, because their good woman at home is too tired after going to work, cleaning, cooking, taking care of the children, and what not. Her energy is spent but not spent on him. You get what you ask for.

Women, we are smarter, but some of us are being taken advantage of. We do everything we are supposed to and it’s still not enough, dealing with a whiny, babied man who can’t decipher the truth from a lie; and letting the past stay where it is and live for the present. Some men been through a lot, but when is enough is enough to let stuff go that a previous lover had done to you? And women, you too.

If you don’t have loyalty and faithfulness then you don’t have anything. That’s even worse than not having communication and love with no respect.

While other women have guys eating out of the palm of their hands. They don’t want for nothing and they know how to use their power to get what they want and sometimes manipulate.

My theory is if you know you’re a cheater, liar, or out there stealing hearts, please stay out of a relationship. Don’t get marry. Don’t bring drama and over excessive baggage that can accommodate 12 people and expect to enter into something healthy. It will only end into a traumatic disaster for the both of you. Stay true.


Stay Strong…Never Give Up

A cup of inspiration for the soul.

For those who may be going through hardships and feel that they are alone, remember that there are someone else out there who are going through harder times than you.

Don’t ever doubt yourself. Believe in yourself. Know that if you just push your way through, better days are awaiting.
Never allow yourself to accept the minimal when you can achieve the maximum you can strive. Yes you may have to start at the bottom if you’re just starting out for the first time or starting over, but you don’t have stay down there.
Reach higher. Go farther. Don’t give up. What you seek is only just around the corner.

Back In Effect

Lately, I have gone through times that I thought was over, but, unfortunately it never stop. Now, I’m to the point where I can say, ” Okay, don’t sweat the small stuff. Move forward and aim higher. Sometimes, it seems like easier said than done, but you all can relate to this.

Sometimes, it seems like your troubles can get the best of you and won’t let go. I’ve felt what that was like. Feeling my way through the brushes and debris, but kept pressing on. Life can take its toll and have you wondering, “why me?”

Remember, life is what you make of it. If you wake up every morning with positive affirmations, then expect good things to happen. You are manifesting it to come to past; in a good way. But, when you are always thinking negative then of course, you can expect negative things to come to you.
I had to learn the hard way. It wasn’t until I hit rock bottom hard that I had to change my way of thinking and let good come into play.
Most times, it can even be the people in your life- the ones that seem to take up space. The ones who have so much to say but nothing to offer. Nevertheless, they don’t make up your life. Nor can can they place you in Heaven or Hell.

But, anyway, I’m still getting there; to a point in my life that I can stop looking in the rear view mirror, and get my life back on track. Moreover, by not letting all the negatives make their way back into my light of happiness.

We all should give life to hope, love, happiness and dedication. Rest assured, nothing is easy as saying it, but if we can just take that first step; we are on our way to a better way of life.

P.S. It feels good to be back to connect with you all again. Thank you for hanging in there with me.

Change or Except What Is


Have you ever felt that no matter how hard you tried, everything seems to get worse?

I know the feeling. You wake up every morning hoping, wishing on a change will come your way. But, you know deep down inside, nothing is going to change unless you understand that whatever happens, is meant for your good.

You don’t want to believe it sometimes, though holding on to something non existence will only make matters all the more worse.

You may even wish that a person you love so much will love you back. You know you will try whatever is neccessary to show this person that you’re screaming, “Hey, I love you! Can you not see that?”

It may bother you that you invest your time, your all, in being devoted to your person. What should you do?  Talk it out? Seek counseling? Whatever it takes, go for it!

You may have a love one or a friend that you want to help but don’t know how. You may not have went through similar experiences, but your gut feeling is telling you to help, help, help. You don’t want to see them suffering.
You want to dedicate your time to make sure this love one or friend can get through the storm with someone who cares enough to say, “No matter what, I’m here for you till the end.”

Still, some of us waste so much time that before you know it, it’s too late. You can’t go back. You can only go forth.

When one door of happiness closes, another opens, but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one that has been opened for us. –Helen Keller

Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. -Maria Robinson

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